You gotta remind yourself sometimes that shit other people have and accomplish has no bearing on and means nothing in regards to you, your life, your drive or your goals.
Before you watch someone else accomplishe something and think “Well jeez, I could’ve done that, why didn’t I, I’m a piece of shit”
Just remind yourself of the things that you actually want and list the steps you’ve taken to get there and keep on walking
Your first time is NOT supposed to hurt
You are NOT supposed to bleed
If you bleed, that is NOT your hymen being ‘popped’, it is a tear due to lack of sexual arousal and natural lubrication.
This is all a MYTH perpetrated by men so they don’t have to make sure you are comfortable and sufficiently aroused enough before you have sex with them. It is an excuse to disregard and hurt you.
I just really want women to know this.